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Gay hookup apps compared: which one for what you want

Grindr, Sniffies, Scruff, Jack'd and the paid gay hookup sites compared: who is on each, what it costs, how it shows men near you, and the catch.8 min read

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Gay hookup safety: robbery setups, catfish, meeting safely

How robbery setups on gay apps work, from two federal cases, plus how to spot a catfish, protect your phone, host or travel safely, and get help.7 min read

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First time with a guy: what to expect and how to prepare

Your first time with a guy: what usually happens, why anal is optional, condoms, lube and PrEP basics, how to say what you want, and how to pick the right man.8 min read

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How to flirt with a guy, in person and on the apps

How to flirt with a guy: reading interest, what to say at the bar, first messages that get answers on the apps, when to send pics, and how to take a no.7 min read

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PrEP, DoxyPEP and testing for men who hook up with men

Sexual-health basics for men who hook up with men: PrEP pills and shots, PEP within 72 hours, DoxyPEP, what to test for, how often, and paying nothing.7 min read

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Discreet gay hookups when you're not out: privacy, billing

Hooking up with men when you're not out: hiding the app, faceless profiles, traceable photos, location data, billing, and threats to out you.7 min read

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Hookup etiquette for men into men: profiles, pics, saying no

The unwritten rules of gay hookups: your profile, what "looking now" means, trading pics, hosting, condoms, status talk, discretion and saying no.7 min read